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Is People Pleasing Cutting into Your Profit?

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Taking steps to create harmony and reduce stress is important. But what happens when you are a little too good at keeping the peace? If you value harmony so much that you go out of your way to avoid conflict, you might be suffering from people-pleasing tendencies....

How to Shift Limiting Beliefs in 3 Simple Steps

Mindset

Your brain is wired to be right. Yep. Hardwired. Once you make a decision about what you choose to believe (Money is the root of all evil, I’ll never be able to afford to retire, all single people over age 40 are goods, the world is going to hell in a handbasket) your brain programs itself to find proof that you’re right. Which means that it literally filters through all of the information that is forever coming at you in a given day, ignoring any information that might contradict your belief and noticing only the information that supports your belief, thus reinforcing the idea that you are, in fact, right.

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Executive Mindset + Leadership Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author | Michigan Girl, Boy Mom, Dog Lover & Vibe Raiser 💕

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How I plan my days. . . ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I love the idea of planning the coming day at night because it makes me feel like I'm prepared for what's coming. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Each night, I sit down today and go over my done list, look over my schedule for the next day and plan what needs to get done, how long I’m going to spend on each task and what I want my day to look like..⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I do this right before bed because it allows my subconscious mind to work through any potential problems while I'm sleeping (yes, this actually works!).⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The crazy cool thing about the mind is that it doesn’t sleep even though you do. So if you plan your day in advance and you have some reservations about how busy it will be, or what problems might arise, your brain will actually work through the problems while you sleep, that way you wake up with solutions! And you're more likely to have a successful day. 😃

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There's nothing quite like the smell of burning leaves, the comfort of your favorite boots and the taste of doughnuts and apple cider! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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One of our family traditions is to explore a new cider mill every year (though after doing this for 23 years, we're running low on "new" places to try. But we definitely have our favorites. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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This year was #spicerorchards farm. They have an amazing corn maze with 20 trivia questions you have to find and solve. We split into teams and went for it. (Me and Tommy won by about 90 seconds!) 😝⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What do you do to celebrate the changing of seasons?

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Just for today, be someone that makes a difference. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Smile at a stranger. Put your phone down when someone is talking to you. Bite your tongue when you are tempted to complain. Give a compliment instead of a suggestion for improvement. And pay attention to the reaction you get from others. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The connection to you make will make a difference. It doesn’t matter what you do, per say, its the effort of paying attention and demonstrating that you care about how the other person feels that matters. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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You want to be someone people champion. Someone that people love to help. Someone that people care about. Start by that person to someone else. You’ll feel amazing in the moment, sure, but if you challenge yourself to keep this promise beyond today, it might just change your life!

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Often, the best opportunities look like obstacles when they first appear. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Opportunities are like doorways, some will show up and it will seem like it's closed. But does that mean that it's locked? No! I just means that you have to take a few steps to walk up and open it! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What does that mean? It means putting yourself "out there" so that the world knows you exist, telling people about your business and what you offer and getting involved in your community and telling everyone you know what you do and how you can serve. And it means giving people enough information to decide whether they want to work with you, or perhaps share your contact information with someone they think does. But they can't do that if you don't tell them that you exist, right? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What doorway is in front of you right now? And is it opened or closed? Because, if it's closed maybe it's because you're waiting for a miracle to land in your lap while you sit on the couch. That's not how it works. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The opportunities are there, but. . . You've got to OPEN THE DOOR!!! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Is it scary? Sure, because you don't know what's on the other side of that door. It could be failure, but it could also be the most amazing success and experience that you've ever known.

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