What if you owe someone a big amount of money? The first thing that would come to mind is that you will need to work really hard for a very long time to earn money that you will then give away. How can that make any sense? Just the thought of it demotivates you already which doesn’t really help at all. This fear of money being taken away is present in any business owner who thinks that they have no control of their income. You can take control of money if you believe that people are getting value from the product or service that you offer. Believe that you are enough and deserving of earning money so you don’t feel like spinning your wheels all day for nothing.
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Take Control Of Money, You Deserve It
How do you get past the money block where you fear that money is going to be taken away from you? That is what we’re talking about in this episode. I had a letter come in from a listener of the podcast and a member of my community that was around this block. Because this is a new one, I haven’t talked about it on the show before, I thought, “Why not dive in because this is a legit fear and concern that so many of us have?” You are in business and you are in control of the income that you bring in. You are 100% in control of the income that you bring in. It’s all mindset.
If you believe you deserve it – if you believe you’re enough – you are valuable and you are worth it. If you believe that your services are of value to others and that you serve other people’s highest good and that you make other people’s lives better just for being a part of it, just for and offering your services or your products, then that is worthy. It’s valuable. The more value you offer, the more you believe you’re enough and you are worth it, the more money you are in control of attracting to you. However, when there is a fear, a deeply-rooted underlying fear that that money isn’t going to stay with you, it can feel like you’re spinning your wheels for nothing. Why are you working? Why are you pursuing goals and chasing dreams if all you’re doing is working to give the money away?
It may be a number of reasons. Maybe you’ve amassed a ton of debt or you owe the IRS money. You have crazy amounts of loans or personal debts that you owe somebody you know. Maybe there is an outstanding lawsuit or settlement against you or liens on something that you own a property. These things might not be in your face all the time every day, but subconsciously, you’re thinking about them every day, if not hundreds of times a day. It is affecting your vibration. It’s bringing you down. Your conscious mind wants to be successful and wants to make money, but subconsciously, you’re fearing it being taken away, and your vibration is a match for the lack. It’s a match for worry, doubt, and fear. What you’re really doing is attracting more of the lack, doubt, and fear into your existence. You’re attracting situations that are going to prevent you from making money because deep down, you don’t want the money because you don’t want to have to give it away.
How do you get past that? You get an action plan together would be my advice. What do you owe? Let’s just pretend it’s an obscene amount of money. What if you owe half a million dollars? It seems like a big amount of money. It seems like you’re going to have to work a lot to earn that. Maybe if you’re in a current situation where you’re making less than six figures, your logical mind is going, “I’m going to have to work five years to amass that money and pay it off, and that’s if I don’t keep a thing for myself.” If you make $100,000 a year, you have to work for five years to pay off this debt.
You’re like, “What is the point? That sounds exhausting and doesn’t sound like any fun.”If you want to keep some for yourself, that time stretch is even longer and you’re like, “No way, I don’t want to do this.” This has come up a lot in situations where there’s child support involved. I’ve even dealt with clients that owe alimony or child support, and don’t want to make a lot of money because it’s going to be taken away in that context, not because they don’t love their kids, but because their acts are shady. They’re like, “I’d rather just buy my kids the things that they need and not do this.” I’ve worked around this block with a lot of people.
What it’s rooted in is scarcity. It’s rooted in the belief that there is a finite amount of money that is rightfully yours. If you are stuck on the belief that you are only capable of earning a certain amount, then it’s going to seem like forever before you can get past that block, before you can pay that money back. Let’s just say you are going to pay it back. Instead of running from that fear, running from the debt, and running from what you owe, turn around, look at it square in the face, and say, “I’m bigger than you. I’m better than you, and I’m going to pay you back just because I can. Because that’s me, and I owe it to myself to move beyond this. Not only am I going to raise enough money to pay off this debt, I’m going to make seven times that.”
If you owe half a million dollars, why not make a million dollars this year? Keep half a million for yourself, pay the other half off. Does that sound so bad? If I were to just hand you a cool million, how would you feel? Would you feel in control again? Would you feel like you’ve got your life back? Would you pay that debt off happily, and then go on vacation and enjoy your life? Of course, you would. What is stopping you from rising above this obstacle and being bigger than it is? What’s stopping you from making double, triple, quadruple that? I’m sure that question just brought up a couple more blocks, because then what we really get into is, “I’m not enough. I’m not valuable enough. I don’t have what it takes. My business isn’t modeled that way. There are logic and force in the universe that’s going to prevent me from making double, triple, quadruple that much money.” That’s the real block we need to work with because that is 100% untrue.
You have everything that you need to make all the money you could ever dream of and more. I would love to help you own that belief. Come hang out with me in the Profit Party Facebook group. Come join our Money Vibes Bootcamp, and start making the transition to a rock star entrepreneur mindset today. Start owning what’s possible. Start believing in yourself. Start thinking bigger than you’ve ever thought before. What’s really possible? What do you believe is possible for you? Get comfortable with that visualization, that dream, and then make it bigger and do it again until you are in a place that is far bigger and better than any debt, fear or limiting belief. When you become stronger than your limits, you can shatter them. That’s all it takes. It takes mental strength and stamina, and when you get there, anything as possible.
I hope that was helpful for you, especially if you are struggling with a large debt or fear that money is going to be taken away from you if you amass a ton of it. If there’s anything else I can do to be helpful, please let me know. You can follow me all over the internet, anywhere in the world. I’m Tonya Rineer. Thanks for hanging out with me.
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